Essay from Chimezie Ihekuna


Chimezie Ihekuna

Chimezie Ihekuna

If you are married and reading this, a question (awkward it may seem) would have to be asked: ‘Before marriage, how many times have you had sex?” Do not trivialize this as it would be very necessary.


Probably, you are looking with disdain! It is understandable. As a matter of fact; if you use this question to X-ray different people on the streets, living in a district or community, you will be amazed at the various responses you would get. Some will give questionable numerical figures (taking the question with levity), others will not answer you, believing that you want to infringe on their privacy. Funny enough, other individuals would say something like ‘I will tell you later’ while others will respond by unleashing life-threatening words and actions on you.



However, if sex is an experience, should it be an off-the-record account, worth remembering and documenting, kept as secret for a time but (think about this question: is anything hidden under the sun?) or something to remembered when you are in the grave!?


If it is an off-the –record account, then why waste your time on a task you will not commend of yourself of doing, after all, anything worth doing is worth doing well?


If it is worth remembering and documenting, then you should be congratulated!


This is because you are about exercising empirical knowledge to others (interested), letting them (the wise ones) learn what are ordinarily vague when taught and possibly help improve the sex life of others before and after the particular time (marriage).


If you are advocating that it should be kept secret for a time, think of the question asked. Do you know that the wall has ears? One way or the other, the other party you had it with will unravel to his or her world what really happened. In time, this could be implicating.


If you are that individual who sees the experience, sex, as something to be remembered when you are in the grave, what an exclamation it is. Remember, it is just one life you and I have to live.


If you portray this disposition, it means that you are in a state of guilt. Imagine you carrying this burden of guilt all your life. How miserable you would be! No one you could share it with?


Then, you are out of this world! Frankly, you are in a world of your own.


How can an individual best know the actual number of times he or she had had sex before marriage?


‘Record keeping of sex activities helps to ascertain one’s level of sexuality and in a way, behavioral disposition, present and in future’…Mr. Ben

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Poetry from Chimezie Ihekuna

See Life In Your Own Way

Chimezie Ihekuna

Chimezie Ihekuna


Deceptions try permeating my sub-conscious like a virus

Ugly events want to make me dance bad circus

I choose to see myself as the citrus

That grows in the field of peace

Never caught up by the weeds of disease

I’m hooked with creativity through my ability

To express my service to humanity

I see life my own way

Decided not to be in dis-array

It doesn’t matter the name;

Whose distraction is giving him the fame

For I know that’s his game



I’m out for the money

but not down with the honeys

because they are monkeys

pretending to be like good mummies

I’m ahead of my time like time

That’s why  you don’t see me all the time

That’s the way I see it…My own way

So, see life in your own way!

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Essay from Chimezie Ihekuna


  • Understanding Heterosexual Dynamics Using Science



The application of science in many fields of human endeavors is undoubtedly not far-fetched. As a matter of fact, science has profound applications on human behaviors, especially sexuality. Sexuality, an integral form of human behavior, can be explained using science. Precisely, science can be explained in the light of heterosexuality in the context of this literary piece.

Understanding Heterosexual Dynamics Using Science explains the various forms of sexuality that exist between a man and woman before marriage, the emotional connections, sense of bonding and impact the audience with the analogous use of the scientific (magnetism and mechanics-based) principles with consequential psychological effects as they affect subsequent relationships(or marriages) individuals engage in. It makes use of novel terminologies to explain the various forms of sexual intercourse. With the use of diagrams, the creativity understanding of the reader-worthy work piece intends reaching the bull’s eye.

It is intended that the reader comprehend this sexuality-based material and appreciate its essence in relationships with the opposite sex. In addition, this brief masterpiece will essentially be useful by sexologists, scientists and other academicians interested in the subject matter.

Understanding Heterosexual Dynamics Using Science merits consideration amongst scholars, students of sexology, psychology and the general reading public.

Mr. Ben

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Poetry from Chimezie Ihekuna

  1. i) Out of the Box


Out of the Box I was lost in the box called life…In it,

(I) I wanted learning but my education was deafening

I wanted truth but my reality faked its root

I wanted to buy the right counsel but my mind controller got me its left sell

I wanted to be free but my pursuit turned a tree

I wanted information but my vision brought me deformation

I wanted wellness but my state showed illness

I wanted food but my money was rude

I wanted a wife but my life mirrored a knife!

I wanted the clarity of pleasure but my naked eyes saw the dullness of pressure

I wanted to live forever but my death was to question

For Ever I wanted peace but my perception reflected unease


(II) I wanted to know about people but my understanding was a fumble

I wanted to be everyone’s friend but my experience was the pal’s end

I wanted to be rich but my efforts didn’t catch a fish!

I wanted direction but my limitation was the obstruction

I wanted to know the ‘why’ to everything happening but my answer had to cry to all prevailing

I wanted to invest in good but my previous return showed “fooled”

I wanted to scream because of pains but my calmness showed up because of gains


(III) I wanted people to hear my voice but my quest was a noise

I wanted money but my struggle was funny!

I wanted to know why the world was divided but the response was: “Its control is what’s favorited”

I wanted to know what happens after death but my physical life told me I was on earth

I wanted to tell people my experience but my words failed me in their presence

I wanted to know if I knew what I know but my existence replied with a “NO!” I wanted to find myself through my works but my inner-self whispered:

“If you want to find yourself, then think Out Of the Box!”

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Poetry from Chimezie Ihekuna

  1. Humanity is moving in Circles!












Times after times,

Humanity thinks it is moving

Civilizations after Civilizations,

Humanity thinks it is advancing

Reigns after reigns,

Humanity thinks it is in control

Inventions after inventions,

Humanity thinks it is in comfort

Values after values,

Humanity thinks it is living

Relationships after relationships,

Humanity thinks it is all-knowing

Truths after truths,

Humanity thinks it is at peace with self



Humanity seems to be lagging behind time

Humanity’s advancement is retarding

Humanity is rather subjugated

Humanity is in discomfort

Humanity is nearly second to dead

Humanity seems to know nothing

Humanity is at logger-heads with self.



Humanity seeks for the way-outs

It thinks they will pave the way

The adventure begins…

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Essay from Chimezie Ihekuna


The Beyond-Analogy of Newton’s Laws of Motion



The classical Newtonian laws of motion are very valid to this present day. As a matter of fact, the entirety of science has its uniqueness in the dynamic foundation of the laws of motion postulated by physicist, Sir Isaac Newton.

The ‘Beyond-Physics’ laws of motion is an analogy of their natural dynamics in the light of meta-physics. The only difference is in their units-presently, there are no fathomable yardsticks or measuring parameters to ascertain intrinsic (eternal) variables associated with this phenomenon (see their explanations in subsequent chapters)

The chapters are stated in the order of the laws of motion as well as subsequent ‘beyond-physics’ statements and analysis (explanations). Strictly, Newton’s laws of motion focus on the action of forces, determining position and a direction of bodies acted on. Similarly, the ‘beyond-physics’ laws are influenced by a special force as the force of inspiration. While a body or an object is used to identify with Newton’s laws of motion, man, humanity or mankind is the analogous body; used to identify with the ‘beyond-physics’ analogy of Newton’s laws of motion…

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Poetry from Chimezie Ihekuna

  1. Is the church really moving?


‘The church is matching on

and the gates of hell shall not prevail’

The Word says

Yet, church is not only stagnated

but also a living manifestation of hell

Is the church really moving ?


‘Greater works shall you do…’ The Word assures the church

Unfortunately, the church has fall short of great works

Is the church really moving?


The word makes plain the role of men and women in marriage

but the church is a showcase of the modern couple age

Is the church really moving?


‘Love your neighbour as you love yourself’ the Word admonishes

However, the church is showing ‘conditioned’ love to its members

Is the church really moving?

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