The Impact of Family Conflicts and Divorce on Children’s Psychological State

Abstract

This scientific article discusses family conflicts and divorce. The main causes of divorce and disagreements include fathers’ betrayal toward their children and family, violence under the influence of alcohol, and avoidance of family responsibilities.

Keywords:

Family, divorce, family conflicts, violence, fatherless children, psychology of girls, social adaptation

Introduction

The family is one of the most important units of society. Its environment plays a significant role in the development of children as individuals. A healthy family is the foundation of a stable society. However, today, family conflicts and divorces cause serious psychological problems in society. These situations especially manifest in the mental and emotional state of children.

Although divorce is often assessed as a problem between husband and wife, it leaves deep and unforgettable marks in the lives of children.

Main Causes of Family Conflicts and Divorce

Experience shows that one of the main reasons for divorce is fathers’ insufficient understanding of their family responsibilities and their indifferent attitude toward them. A father in the family should be not only a material provider but also a moral support. In some cases, fathers’ negligence toward the family, betrayal, or defining everything by money undermines the atmosphere of trust in the household.

In addition, alcohol consumption is one of the factors that intensifies family conflicts. Violence arising under the influence of alcohol negatively affects not only the relationship between spouses but also the psychological state of children.

The Effect of Violence and Stress on Children’s Psychology

Children growing up in a violent family environment experience constant stress. Stress is the body’s response to negative external factors, and when prolonged, it negatively impacts the child’s physical development. Such children often have high levels of anxiety and fear, and their self-confidence is significantly reduced.

According to psychological research, children who witness family quarrels often experience:

Low self-esteem compared to peers

Difficulty in social adaptation

Persistent fear and anxiety

Psychosomatic and health-related psychological problems

These children struggle to express their thoughts freely.

The Psychological State of Fatherless Children

After divorce, in many cases, the father leaves the family, and children grow up without a father. Some children grow up without ever seeing their father. In such children, the internal need and longing for a father are strong, and sometimes even the sound of a door knocking sparks the hope that “maybe my father has come.” This reflects the unstable expectations and emotional void in the child’s inner world.

Fatherless children grow up craving affection. Mothers often try to give them love both as a mother and father, giving all they can, but a father’s love cannot be fully replaced. A father’s love is different and unique; every child has a personal place for the father that no one else can fill.

Fatherless girls often express themselves through education. Psychologically, girls who grow up without a father are forced to mature earlier. According to multiple studies, these girls demonstrate strong goal-oriented behavior. Among girls whose fathers left, the desire to support their mothers and make them happy is often very strong. Consequently, they strive for education, self-improvement, and earning a respected position in society. For them, knowledge is not only a means of development but also a tool to overcome life’s challenges.

At the same time, such girls have strong spiritual needs. Specifically, the need for a father’s moral support and prayers often remains unfulfilled. Receiving a father’s blessing (oq fotihasi) becomes a lifelong longing.

Conclusion

In conclusion, family conflicts and divorces represent a serious psychological issue for society. The greatest victims of these processes are children, who grow up with trust issues and health-related problems. In particular, girls who grow up without a father face greater challenges in life.

References

Scientific sources on family and psychology.

Articles on social psychology and the consequences of divorce.

A brief introduction about myself: My name is Orinboyeva Zarina. I was born on April 1, 2011, in Oqdaryo District, Samarkand Region. Currently, I am an 8th-grade student at School No. 43 in Oqdaryo District, Samarkand Region.

I have participated in numerous projects and competitions and am the holder of several international certificates. Twice, my creative work has been published in an American journal and once in the district newspaper. I have also participated in a conference in Germany and serve as a volunteer in Samarkand city.

For my creative works, I was awarded the “Hope of the Nation” badge. I also participated in the district stage of the Zulfiyakhonim Award. My creative works are indexed on Google, and I am a member of the Argentine Writers’ Association.

These achievements are just the beginning, Inshallah. I plan to continue developing myself and achieving many more accomplishments. I hope to present my creative works personally to our respected President one day. My ultimate goal is to become an outstanding journalist, admired and envied by all.

Komilova Parizod

First-Year Student, Faculty of Pedagogy

Holder of Native Language and English Language Certificates

When Days Arrive and Flowers Bloom

When days arrive and flowers bloom,

These were the dreams my thoughts would groom.

Distant wishes now appear,

Oh, how pure this state, how dear.

One single line can’t hold the sense,

Its joy climbs hills and mountains immense.

No words adorned in shining art

Can paint the bliss within the heart.

We came, we came before this light,

To build our happiness so bright.

Don’t stand aside — come, join the flame,

Time is short, but joy we claim.

Leave the silence, hush no more,

Even шум has charm in store.

Though you tire and feel the sting,

Hide your tears — let courage sing.

Such is life — at times a game,

It conquers you without a name.

Won’t leave you resting in your space,

It stirs your nerves in restless chase.

Do not blame the helpless fate,

Nor seek the guilty out in hate.

What is written comes to be,

Trust — there’s hidden good you’ll see.

Nishonboyeva Shahnoza

My Life Path and Aspirations for the Future

I, Nishonboyeva Shahnoza, was born on October 28, 2001, in Yangi Gulboq village of Mingbuloq district, Namangan region. The rural environment, sincere people, and a lifestyle based on hard work played a significant role in shaping my worldview. There are two sons and one daughter in our family, and I am the only daughter. This taught me from an early age to be responsible, patient, and determined in pursuing my goals.

The role of my parents in my life is invaluable. My father, Botirov Ma’murjon, was born on August 16, 1968. His diligence, honesty, and determination have always been a great example for me. My mother, Akbarova Gulchehra, was born on February 15, 1971. Her kindness, patience, and constant support have been the greatest foundation in helping me reach where I am today. The upbringing and confidence given by my parents encourage me to take bold steps in life.

Currently, I am a fourth-year student at Kokand State University, consistently striving to gain knowledge. During my student years, I have not limited myself to academic studies alone; I have worked on self-development and acquiring modern knowledge and skills. As a result of my efforts, I developed a strong interest in mental arithmetic. I earned certificates in this field and established a mental arithmetic course for children.

Today, the achievements of my students are my greatest accomplishment. Their enthusiasm for learning and every success they achieve give me even greater responsibility and inspiration. My main goal is to help my students reach higher levels, develop their potential, and contribute to their becoming globally recognized young individuals in the future. Along this path, I continue to learn, obtain new certificates, and expand my knowledge.

The role of my parents-in-law and my spouse in my achievements is also extremely significant. Their trust, constant assistance, and support give me the strength to overcome any difficulties.

Another important goal for my future is to work in a preschool educational institution and become a strong and experienced educator. Over time, I aspire to rise to the position of director, relying on my knowledge and experience, and achieve high results in the field of education. Of course, this path requires continuous hard work, self-improvement, and professional development. I am ready for it.

My life path is a journey of moving toward my dreams with determination and building the future through knowledge and hard work. I firmly believe that every effort and every day of hard work will eventually bear fruit. Because every step taken with dedication and faith leads toward a bright future.

Abdusaidova Jasmina was born on July 20, 2011, in Gallaorol District of Jizzakh Region. She is a young creative talent and aspiring writer who continues to actively pursue her artistic work. She has participated in numerous competitions and events, winning prestigious first, second, and third places.

From an early age, she developed a strong passion for learning and has tested herself in various fields and disciplines. She is the recipient of the “Best Leader” nomination award.

Her creative works have been published several times in the international newspapers Classico Opine and Kenya Times. They have also been featured on international platforms such as Atunis Galaxy Poetry (Albania), Alessandria Today (Italy), and SynchChaos (United States).

She serves as an ambassador for three international organizations in India. Her creative works are indexed on Google.

She actively participated in the creative festival titled “Mosaic of Nations – 8 Countries, 1 Stage, 1 Heart,” where she won first place and was awarded the “Ambassador of Friendship” badge.

She is also a member of the Writers’ Union of Argentina.

Alisher Navoiy and His Literary Heritage: His Unparalleled Place in Uzbek Literature

Abstract

Alisher Navoiy is one of the greatest figures in the history of Uzbek literature. His творчество not only made an immense contribution to the development of the Uzbek language but also had a profound influence on world literature. This article explores Alisher Navoiy’s life, literary heritage, philosophical views, most famous works, and historical significance. It also analyzes how Navoiy’s творчество is perceived in the modern era and how his works influence the thinking and worldview of contemporary readers. Navoiy is examined as a poet, thinker, and statesman, and his role in today’s cultural and spiritual heritage is evaluated.

Keywords: Alisher Navoiy, Uzbek literature, poetry, Fuzuli, love, Sufism, historical heritage

Introduction

Alisher Navoiy (1441–1501) is recognized as one of the greatest poets and literary figures of Central Asia. Born in the city of Herat (present-day Afghanistan), Navoiy had an unparalleled influence not only on Uzbek literature but also on the development of the entire Turkic and Persian literary traditions. The deep philosophical thought, spiritual meaning, and poetic mastery found in his works have been studied for centuries. This article provides a detailed analysis of Navoiy’s contribution to literature and culture, as well as his life, works, and philosophical views.

Main Part

1. Alisher Navoiy: His Life and Personality

Alisher Navoiy was born in 1441 in Herat, which was part of the Timurid Empire. Raised in an intellectually rich family, he studied literature, philosophy, logic, astronomy, and religious sciences from a young age. Despite living during a period of political instability, he served as a minister in the court of Sultan Husayn Bayqara.

Although he was a statesman, he paid great attention to the development of art, science, and literature, supporting many scholars and poets. His personality harmoniously combined the qualities of a politician, poet, and Sufi thinker.

2. Navoiy’s Works: The Harmony of Poetry and Philosophy

Alisher Navoiy was an extremely prolific writer, and his works cover a wide range of themes, including love, morality, justice, enlightenment, and spiritual perfection.

His most famous work is Khamsa (“The Quintet”), a collection of five epic poems, which includes:

Hayrat al-Abrar (“Wonder of the Righteous”) – a moral and philosophical work discussing virtue and the spiritual principles of society.

Farhad and Shirin – an epic devoted to tragic love.

Layli and Majnun – a famous love story symbolizing divine love and spiritual madness.

Sab’ai Sayyar (“Seven Planets”) – a work about enlightenment, justice, and governance.

Saddi Iskandari (“The Wall of Alexander”) – a poem devoted to wisdom, politics, and leadership.

Navoiy’s mastery of language, thought, and genre has ensured that his works remain valued not only in his own era but also today.

3. Sufism and Philosophy: The Foundation of Navoiy’s Worldview

One of the most important aspects of Navoiy’s творчество is Sufi philosophy. Sufism is based on the ideas of spiritual purification, closeness to God, and the cleansing of the soul.

In his work Muhabbatnama (“The Book of Love”), the concept of love is interpreted not only as a feeling between people but also as a spiritual path toward reaching the Creator.

For Navoiy, true love is the path that leads the soul toward perfection.

4. Navoiy and the Uzbek Literary Language

Although Navoiy wrote in two languages—Persian and Turkic (Chagatai)—his greatest contribution was elevating the Turkic language to a high literary level. During a time when Persian dominated literary expression, he deliberately wrote in Turkic and demonstrated its rich expressive possibilities.

By doing so, he laid a strong foundation for Uzbek literature.

5. Navoiy’s Legacy in Modern Literature and Thought

Even today, Alisher Navoiy’s творчество has not lost its relevance. His works have been translated into many languages and are studied worldwide. In Uzbekistan, February 9 is celebrated annually as “Navoiy Day.”

His ideas about justice, compassion, knowledge, and love remain an invaluable spiritual heritage for modern society.

Conclusion

Alisher Navoiy was not only a poet but also a great thinker, statesman, and spiritual leader whose influence has endured for centuries. The poetic beauty, philosophical depth, and spiritual values in his works continue to inspire humanity to reflect and to cultivate self-improvement.

Navoiy’s heritage is an invaluable treasure of the Uzbek people and an integral part of world culture.

References

Navoiy, A. (2013). Khamsa (Five Epics). Tashkent: Akademnashr.

Navoiy, A. (2011). Hayrat al-Abrar. Tashkent: Gafur Ghulom Publishing House.

Navoiy, A. (2012). Lison ut-Tayr. Tashkent: Fan Publishing.

Sultonov, B. (2015). Alisher Navoiy and His Sufi Views. Tashkent: National Library of Uzbekistan.

Mahmudov, R. (2020). Alisher Navoiy: His Personality and Literary Heritage. Tashkent: Writers’ Union of Uzbekistan.

Komilov, N. (2001). Sufism. Tashkent: Movarounnahr.

Quronov, D. (2004). Introduction to Literary Studies. Tashkent: Akademnashr.

Ibrohimov, A. (2018). History of Uzbek Classical Literature. Tashkent: Fan and Technology.

Yoldoshev, M. (2016). Artistic Thinking in the Works of Alisher Navoiy. Tashkent: O‘qituvchi Publishing.

Karimov, I. A. (1997). High Spirituality — An Invincible Force. Tashkent: Manaviyat.

Abduxalilova Shoxsanamxon Azizbek qizi

Born in Polmon Neighborhood Citizens’ Assembly, Quvasoy City, Fergana Region.

Second-year student in the Primary Education program at Namangan State Pedagogical Institute.

BOOKS AS A FACTOR OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH AND PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

Namangan State Pedagogical Institute

Faculty of Pedagogy, Primary Education Program Student

Abduxalilova Shoxsanamxon Azizbek qizi

Scientific Supervisor: Djakbarova Mahliyo Ibraximjanovna

Abstract

This article analyzes the role of reading culture in the spiritual development of individuals, as well as the psychological and social significance of reading. It examines the impact of book reading on reducing stress levels, its contribution to the upbringing of the younger generation, and modern methods of promoting reading among youth. Furthermore, the article provides information about ongoing reforms, initiatives, and presidential decrees in our country aimed at developing reading as an effective means of enhancing spirituality.

Practical recommendations for improving reading efficiency are presented at the conclusion of the article.

Keywords: spirituality, reading, reading culture, personal development, psychological health, “20-page rule,” intellectual potential.

INTRODUCTION

One of the greatest miracles discovered in the course of human development is the book. It is not only a source of knowledge, but also a faithful companion that enriches a person’s inner world and gives strength to live and struggle. In today’s information-driven society, the role of books in shaping the spiritual worldview of young people has become more relevant than ever.

A book is humanity’s greatest victory over time and space. It is not merely a source of knowledge, but a spiritual bridge connecting the past and the future.

MAIN PART

1. Spiritual Nourishment and Personal Development

Just as a person needs food to satisfy physical needs, the human soul requires reading. Through books, individuals become acquainted with the cultures of different nations, the lives of historical figures, and the mysteries of the universe. This process broadens one’s worldview and teaches critical and comprehensive thinking.

Unfortunately, many private publications today lack proper standards and criteria. For them, the absence of standards becomes the standard, and the absence of ideas becomes the idea itself. One sometimes wonders whether the authors of immoral and entirely unnational adventures were truly raised in a national cultural environment. Do we not realize that even one bad film or book watched or read by many people can negatively affect their spirituality?

In this regard, our respected mentor Azamat Haydarov states: “Regarding film titles, first there was a movie called ‘The Outsider Groom.’ Later, even the bride became an outsider. There is now a need to reread Abdullah Qahhor’s famous work ‘Tales from the Past.’”

Open book stalls located in busy areas are far more effective than luxurious bookstores situated inside buildings. People who are extremely busy often find it difficult to visit bookstores located in less accessible areas unless they have a specific purpose. However, when book stalls are located along common routes, even casually browsing may inspire someone to purchase two or three books. Additionally, this approach creates employment opportunities, fosters a competitive environment, reduces book prices, and saves the large expenses required for constructing luxurious buildings.

Creating an Open Electronic City Library

If the best and most beneficial books were made freely available on a special platform with open Wi-Fi access for city residents, and if gamification elements were incorporated into the platform, more people would be encouraged to read. Rewarding the most active readers annually and recognizing them as the best readers of the city could serve as motivation and inspire especially young people to read more.

Public Events

A citywide Reading Day marathon could be organized, where people gather outdoors and read books together, similar to a cycling marathon.

A week-long mass book fair could also be held, during which mobile book stalls sell various books in designated parts of the city. During this week, new book presentations could be organized, the best books and readers of the year could be announced, and even carnival parades dedicated to book characters could take place.

Of course, we ourselves are the organizers of such initiatives and public events. As a student of Namangan State Pedagogical Institute, I can confidently say that reading promotion activities are conducted not only nationwide but also in our institute. In particular, our library’s book collection has been significantly enriched, and the material and technical base of the Information Resource Center is excellent.

2. The Psychological Impact of Reading (An Anti-Stress Tool)

Reading is not merely a method of obtaining information; it is also a means of healing and reshaping the human psyche. In psychology, there is even a concept called bibliotherapy (healing through books), which is widely used to improve mental well-being.

Modern medical and psychological research shows that reading has a positive impact on human health. Just 6–10 minutes of reading can normalize heart rate and reduce muscle tension by up to 68 percent. When immersed in the pages of a book, a person forgets daily worries and finds spiritual relaxation in another world.

Throughout all historical periods, reading has been the most effective way of personal development and expanding one’s worldview. Even in today’s era of globalization, it has not lost its importance.

An important fact: Reading helps a person overcome feelings of loneliness. Through “communication” with literary characters, individuals realize that they are not alone in their struggles.

3. Success and Statistics

A common characteristic of all great historical figures is their passionate love for reading. Reading sharpens thinking, enriches vocabulary, and improves fluency of speech.

In recent years, attention to reading in Uzbekistan has been elevated to the level of state policy. As a result of the “Young Reader” competitions, thousands of young people have returned to reading. According to statistics, although the publication of fiction in our country has tripled over the past five years, the time allocated to daily reading still lags behind that of developed countries such as Iceland and Norway.

CONCLUSION AND RECOMMENDATIONS

Reading is not merely a way to spend free time; it is the most beneficial intellectual investment for the future. A personal library and regular reading are the only ways to preserve humanity and overcome spiritual poverty.

Practical Recommendation: If it is difficult to find time for reading, it is advisable to apply the “20-page rule.” By reading just 20 pages per day, a person can complete approximately 25–30 books per year. This is a number capable of completely transforming one’s life.

Recommendations

To further popularize reading in society, it is advisable to establish open electronic city libraries, incorporate gamification elements into specialized platforms, and introduce regular incentive systems for the most active readers. Only a generation that is closely connected with books can build a great future.

Social Reforms and Effectiveness

In Uzbekistan, raising reading culture to the level of state policy — particularly through the “Young Reader” competitions and the threefold increase in fiction publications — is a positive development. However, to reach international indicators such as those of Iceland and Norway, reading must become a daily habit and lifestyle.

In conclusion, reading is not merely a meaningful way to spend free time, but the only path to overcoming spiritual poverty and the most valuable intellectual investment for the future. A person who befriends books is capable of elevating not only their own life but also the spiritual image of society as a whole.

REFERENCES

Mirziyoyev, Sh. M. On the Program of Comprehensive Measures for the Development of the System of Publishing and Distribution of Book Products, Increasing and Promoting Reading Culture. Resolution No. PQ-3271, September 13, 2017.

Karimov, I. A. High Spirituality – An Invincible Force. Tashkent: Manaviyat Publishing House, 2008.

Hoshimov, O. The Book – A Lesson of Life. Collection of Articles. Tashkent: Sharq Publishing House, 2010.

Adler, M. How to Read a Book: A Guide to Intelligent Reading.

Dostoevsky, F. M. White Nights.

Toshkentboyeva Xumora

She was born on August 31, 2008, in Shahrisabz city, Qashqadaryo region. From an early age, she was curious about learning and had a strong interest in studying languages. Currently, she is a student at Samarkand State Institute of Foreign Languages, majoring in Foreign Language and Literature. In addition, she holds several international certificates and is among the students who are passionate about reading.

The Path of Development of Amir Temur

Abstract

Amir Temur is regarded as one of the greatest figures who left a profound mark on Uzbek and world politics and civilization. Today, we clearly understand the significance of his rich experience in establishing a just system of state governance. This article discusses Amir Temur’s path of development, his state-building policy, and his reforms in the fields of education and the military. It also highlights the importance of The Code of Temur in public administration and its influence on the worldview of modern students. Furthermore, the article reveals Amir Temur’s role as a great statesman and the processes of development achieved through his policies.

Keywords: Amir Temur, political stability, Timurid state, activity, The Code of Temur, military reforms, education system, historical heritage, Babur, Samarkand, justice, rule of law, centralized state.

Main Part

Amir Temur: His Life and Personality

Amir Temur was born on April 9, 1336, in the village of Khoja Ilgor near Kesh. According to legends, he was born holding a clot of red blood in his hand, and his hair was said to be white like that of an elderly man. Such descriptions were even compared to stories about Genghis Khan.

From a young age, he mastered science, military arts, and archery, possessing a sharp memory and strong determination. His father, Amir Muhammad Taraghay, was from the Barlas clan of Turkic origin and was a respected and influential noble in Transoxiana.

In 1370, after defeating Amir Husayn, he ascended the throne in Samarkand as the ruler of all Transoxiana. He organized campaigns to the Golden Horde, the Ottoman Empire, India, and Iran, establishing a vast empire.

Timurid Military Art

The Timurid army was precisely organized in terms of numbers, its battle formations were well-developed, and it was equipped with the advanced weapons and military technology of its time. Military units were distinguished by their uniforms, banners, and standards.

Their strategies included destroying enemy defenses through various methods, launching sudden strikes on major cities, surrounding enemy forces on a large scale, and defeating them step by step.

Amir Temur and his descendants, especially Babur, made significant contributions to the development of world military art. This has been acknowledged by military specialists and commanders. Known as a great military leader and innovative organizer, Sahibqiran succeeded in creating a disciplined army, wisely managing troops during battles, overcoming obstacles with strategic skill, and maintaining high morale among his soldiers.

The Educational Renaissance during the Reign of Amir Temur

During the Timurid period, special attention was given to education, science, and culture as the foundation of a renaissance. Scholars, poets, and craftsmen were supported, and the development of science was elevated to the level of state policy.

In building a powerful state and enlightened society, Amir Temur relied on ancient Turkic statehood traditions and Islamic law. He deeply understood that the foundation of any development lies in a high-quality education system. Therefore, he first focused on properly establishing education and upbringing and raising the social status of educated and enlightened individuals. Educational institutions were established throughout major cities.

Historical sources indicate that there was a tradition of enrolling boys in school at the age of four years, four months, and four days, and primary education covered all cultural regions of the vast empire.

The Code of Temur

During Amir Temur’s lifetime, a special work entitled The Code of Temur was written, describing the principles of state governance. The work consists of two parts and is considered a priceless historical source of the Middle Ages.

It includes biographical information related to Temur’s life events, his views on military art, and descriptions of state structure and governance. The centralized and powerful state created by Amir Temur was established based on the invaluable principles contained in this work.

The main ideas of the book include:

Justice as the main pillar of the state;

Supremacy of law as equal for all;

A disciplined army as the guarantee of a strong state;

Wisdom and consultation as superior to violence;

Loyalty and diligence as the criteria for holding office.

The historical significance of this work lies in the fact that The Code of Temur is an important source for studying the history of statehood in Central Asia. It served as a political guide for many rulers. Even today, it provides valuable ideas about leadership, justice, and order.

Economic and Cultural Development

After establishing a large state, Amir Temur created conditions for the economic and cultural development of his country. Ancient traditions of past eras were revived in a new historical form. As Transoxiana became a center of trade, economy, and culture across the Near and Middle East, cities such as Samarkand, Kesh, Bukhara, Termez, Tashkent, and Merv flourished and were beautified.

Large buildings of mosques, madrasahs, mausoleums, caravanserais, and bathhouses were constructed. It became customary for every victory to be immortalized in architecture. In his construction activities, Amir Temur pursued specific political goals — the structures he built were meant to demonstrate the power and greatness of his empire.

Conclusion

Amir Temur occupies an important place in history not only as a powerful military commander but also as a great statesman who paved the way for development. His path of progress was achieved through the establishment of a strong state, just governance, and reliance on knowledge and enlightenment.

References

Amir Temur – A Great Military Commander and Statesman. Collection of materials from the Republican Scientific-Practical Conference. 2025, 420 pages.

People’s Word newspaper.

The Code of Temur. Conclusion section, 318 pages.

Masharipova Yorqinoy Ravshanbek qizi. Student of the Urgench State Pedagogical University, Philology Department.

SYMBOL OF COMPASSION

There is such a being in this world that no matter how much one writes or speaks about her, it will never be enough; there will always remain words left unsaid. Because a mother is not something that can be fully described by words — she is a sacred presence understood by the heart, felt through emotion, and measured by a lifetime. A mother is the beginning of life and the continuation of humanity. As long as she exists, we are never alone; as long as she exists, humanity remains whole. Even before we come into this world, our mother lives together with us. The nine months during which she carries us beneath her heart are not merely a biological process, but a school of spiritual connection, patience, and self-sacrifice. Throughout these months, a mother swallows both her joy and her pain. From that very moment, she begins to live for a child not yet born. She gives up everything that could pose a danger to the life growing within her. The warmth and affection we feel from the very moment of our birth belong to our mother. Perhaps that is why our love for mothers has always been different from all other loves.

When speaking of the purest love in human life, nothing can compare to a mother’s love for her child. Her compassion and affection are so pure that they are free of conditions and calculations. She never expects a reward for everything she does for us from birth until maturity. Seeing her children happy is the greatest happiness for a mother. In this world, the only person who believes we deserve a better life than the one she herself lives is our mother.

It is truly difficult to imagine life without a mother. She loves us more than anyone else. When the time comes, she is ready to risk even her life for us and strives to never let us lack anything. She always offers us the best of everything: food, clothing, words, and love. Even if she wears old clothes herself, she considers the best worthy only of her children. Have you ever noticed that when food on the table is scarce, a mother’s stomach is always “full”?

According to research, the strongest pain in the world is the pain a mother experiences while giving birth. And she endures it. As infants, we cry at night due to natural processes, and she endures that too. When we fall ill, her soul suffers even more than ours. As if that were not enough, she spends sleepless nights caring for us, forgetting rest and even herself — and she endures all of this for her children. But what about us? What have we done, and what are we doing, to repay those sleepless nights? We simply claim that we are not understood. Yet did she not understand us when we were infants and unable to speak? Was it not she who sensed our hunger and restlessness without a single word? Sometimes knowingly, sometimes unknowingly, we hurt her feelings, yet she is a mother — would she ever truly resent her child?

We often consider ourselves people of high self-worth. Let me explain this with an example. Imagine that we take care of a domestic animal, say, a puppy. We feed it, play with it, and when our affection overflows, we might even bathe it. Time passes, and it grows into a large dog. One day, it starts barking at us and, having learned from stray dogs, even tries to attack us. Naturally, we would beat it or chase it away, trying not to let ourselves be harmed. Now think about it: is a mother, who has suffered, forgotten her own dreams, and devoted the most beautiful years of her life to raising her child, truly deserving of harsh words or complaints from her children over trivial matters? What should we call the fact that she faces such situations not once but many times, swallowing her pain each time and continuing to give love as if nothing happened?

A mother is the only being whose patience knows no limits and whose love is unconditional. She endures pain, adapts to sleepless nights, passes every harsh word from her child through her heart, yet continues to give love. But this silence and endurance are not signs of weakness — they are signs of greatness.

We have no right to think that a mother’s patience is infinite. Every swallowed sorrow, every unspoken pain leaves a trace in her heart. A mother does not expect perfection from us; she expects humanity — a kind word, a moment of attention, and a respect that lasts a lifetime.

Therefore, let us value our mothers not after losing them, but while they are still alive. For success achieved without a mother’s blessing is empty, and a path walked without her prayers is barren. As long as a mother exists, there is a mountain standing behind us. Before that mountain collapses, recognizing its value is our greatest human duty.